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UK based African Diaspora fights to ban bride price
Shortly after studying law at university Atuki met her English husband Glyn and moved to the UK and set up Mifumi with her sister. Since then Atuki and Evelyn have dedicated their lives to fighting for women's rights. Both women work from Mifumi's UK office, which carries out the initial groundwork; of applying for grants, conducting research and liaising with the Ugandan office in order to run the projects on the ground.
"Bride price is a slave-like practice which dehumanises women and turns them into commodities," explains Evelyn. "Previously all men had to pay a bride price to marry, which was given in livestock and meant that a woman was a man's property and he could do whatever he wanted with her. It was common for women to be beaten and abused."
Evelyn adds that the younger the girl, the higher the price paid to her parents for marriage, which resulted in many young girls being sold into marriage. One victim who visited a Mifumi supported project is Mary, who was 14-years-old when she was sent by her father to her aunt's house for what she thought was a routine visit. Suddenly, she found herself married to a man she had never met before, who paid her father a bride price and locked her up in a hut to ensure that she did not escape. The schoolgirl was verbally and sexually abused and later fell pregnant. When Mary's mother, who was also pregnant at the time, confronted her husband about this he physically assaulted her.
"It was so socially acceptable we thought, 'how are we going to tackle bride price? It's like tackling culture.' Even the priest wouldn't marry you if you hadn't been paid a bride price. We were scared of making enemies everywhere and bringing down all the good work that we had done." says Evelyn.
To overcome cultural and traditional resistance Mifumi consulted with local churches, gaining the support of many religious figures. Mifumi then created the Women's Safety Forum in the Ugandan province of Tororo, which still provides much needed support from abuse. The Community Safety Forum of key men from the area also shame abusers and make them think about their behaviour.
To free the younger generation from the cycle of 'acceptable' abuse Mifumi provide Feel Free education packs across schools in Eastern Uganda, which has made a real difference. "Girls' expectations in life have been raised and many are hoping for a career. Now, for the first time we have girls taking a stand against bride price and refusing to be married off. We have girls reporting that they think their parents are planning to sell them into marriage. Crucially, we also have victims of bride price coming to us with the realisation that there is help available for them, as is the case with Mary and her mother.
Thanks to Mifumi Mary and her mother were given counselling, support and guidance, medical treatment and a start-up pack enabling them to set up a business and rent a property. Now mother and daughter have both given birth and are successfully managing their lives.